Clothes – laundry — the simple, easy way!

One of the most significant decisions in minimizing to an RV lifestyle is the subject of clothing.  We all have closets and drawers full of clothes! A big part of downsizing was going through the clothes and deciding what to keep, recognizing that storage was minimal and the difference my new lifestyle would require in clothing. I took my clues from Marie Kondo’s book, The Art of Tidying Up.  I cleared a big area of the living room, and piled ALL the clothes from every closet and dresser and shelf and basket in the house.  Then I ruthlessly went through the mountain of stuff, throwing each item into the three SAVE – GIVE – TRASH piles. Since I would no longer be working in an office, all the work clothes went into the GIVE pile. Then I immediately bagged the GIVE and TRASH piles into garbage bags – white kitchen bags for GIVE to go to donation and black garbage bags for TRASH (underwear, socks, old holey sweats and T shirts, etc.)

With a much smaller pile of clothing to KEEP, I then decided to select 8 outfits for warmer weather and 8 outfits for colder weather.  I chose my favorite clothes and put them together into piles of tops and bottoms – and found that most were of the black/white/aqua coloring.  The rest I put into more white garbage bags to give away. I made a pile of 10 sets of underwear and socks, a swimsuit, one casual dress, a hoodie, a winter coat, two pajamas, and set them aside. Then I took all the garbage bags out to the car, drove to the donation center to toss in all the white bags, and to the dumpster to toss in all the black bags.  DONE! One ruthless afternoon, and no more dithering back and forth about clothes!

FYI – At the same time, I did the same thing with shoes – keeping a pair each of slippers, sneakers, hiking shoes, sandals, flip flops, and casual black shoes. All the rest went to GIVE or TRASH, depending on their condition. The shoes are in an inexpensive 12-pair hanging shoe bag , hanging over the back of the headboard and behind the bed. Used dryer sheets get tucked into the shoes so the van doesn’t smell like a locker room. (I prefer the lavender dryer sheets!)

Now I have been on the road for over a year, and am happy with the clothing choices I made. Most of the outfits coordinate and I have easily transitioned from warm weather to cooler weather to warm weather again. The layers work for me, and I have been very comfortable.  If I buy something, I donate the old so I am not adding more stuff into my van.     8 outfits for each season works well.

I do not have laundry facilities in my van by choice. I keep a small laundry basket handy and toss my dirty clothes there until it is full. Then I find a laundromat or use a family/friend washer when visiting.  I actually prefer to use a public laundromat or campground laundromat so I am not imposing on others.  Here is a picture of my laundry basket, which has detergent pods, dryer sheets, and a coin purse of quarters at the bottom, ready for the next laundry day.

The laundry basket – ready for the next washday

After I have washed and dried my clothes, I set them up as outfits.  I place a pair of capris/leggings down first on the table. Then I select a top folded lengthwise and underwear, and roll them together with the underwear inside.  Then this small bundle gets rolled up into the pants in a tight bundle.  Rolling prevents wrinkles and keeps the outfit tightly together.  I vary which tops and bottoms to combine so I don’t get bored with the clothing choices.

Capris, summer top, and underwear – outfit ready to be rolled up tightly
Top and underwear rolled into a small bundle, then rolled into pants

I use fabric cubes to store my clothes. One cube will have warm weather clothes (usually capris and a summery top with underwear) and another cube will have cooler weather clothes (usually leggings and a tunic and underwear). Then I just pull the next roll out of the appropriate cube for the weather that day and get dressed.  The rolled clothing bundles also make it easy to pack my gym bag if I am showering at a Planet Fitness or a campground or friend/family shower (Really? You never got into the shower room to find that you left your clean underwear in the van, or worse yet  — dropped it in the parking lot?!?!?) The fabric cubes are between the bed and back doors, and easily accessible from either inside reaching over the bed or outside via the back door.

Warm weather cube with outfits rolled into individual bundles
Cooler weather cube – outfits rolled into individual bundles

If I were a young mom raising kids again, I would definitely do this for the children in the family, even living in a home and not on the road.  Roll together a day’s outfit including underwear and socks, and it is so much easier to get them dressed for the day! And clean underwear gets used every day! (Seriously? your kids didn’t wear the same underwear for several days until you noticed?!?!?) The kid picks a bundle and puts it on – no more “which shirt do you want to wear? are those matching socks? no, please don’t choose an orange plaid shirt and purple striped shorts” arguments in the morning!

This is also a great technique for vacations, camping, etc.  You get the correct number of outfits and don’t end up with seven shirts and 3 pants and one pair of underwear. Keep a travel bag with toothbrush, toothpaste, shampoo and shower gel, and you are good to go!  It takes me about 10 minutes to pack for a trip – even going 2 weeks to South Korea to visit my daughter.

When I load the fabric cubes according to weather, it makes the morning choices easier – no more hunting for longer pants or a cooler shirt! I know which cube has warm weather clothes and which cube has cooler weather clothes.  There is another cube with extra underwear, the pajamas, and socks. One more cube has the swimsuit, hoodie, dress, etc. Everything is rolled to prevent wrinkles, even the casual dress! The laundry basket goes back into the van, making sure there are more detergent pods, dryer sheets, and quarters for the next laundry day – if not, I stop and purchase those things right away before the first dirty clothes get added on top.  This way I know I am ready for the next laundromat visit – no hunting for quarters or having to buy detergent from an expensive vending machine!

Ready for the next washday with detergent pods, dryer sheets, and quarters in a coin purse

It takes one washer to clean the laundry basket-ful, and another washer for sheets, towels, pillow cases – which I do once or twice a month depending on how often I slept in the van versus someone’s spare bedroom or my tent.  I spend very little time on clothing and am very comfortable with this setup for my particular lifestyle.

Everyone’s life is different, and your clothing preferences/lifestyle may differ, and so I humbly offer this as a starting point to thinking about how to simplify life.  


From my bookshelf:

“Very often we view God as a sort of grand puppeteer – making this one to jiggle and that one to dance, all on cue. I wonder, however, if this analogy isn’t all wrong. I wonder, instead, if it wouldn’t be better to analogize God as the master conductor instructing the various sections to respond on God’s signal – this section then the next, rhythmically responding and harmonizing with excellence. I wonder if God isn’t instead this great music maker, teaching all creation to play and sing along to the melody of love. God speaks: “Listen. Do you hear it? Do you know the tune? Join with me. Let us make music in the key of divine love!”

–Essay by Will Albright, The Jesus Lens: Seeing God through Jesus     from the book Uncontrolling Love: Essays Exploring the Love of God                     by Thomas Jay Oord, et al, 2017





Tiny home versus Travel (RV) home

For the last few years, as I looked at the empty nest and realized my freedom from those wonderful years of raising a family, I thought long and hard about how I wanted to live. Definitely a simpler life with less stuff! I have never been one for housekeeping or gardening, and living solo gave me the opportunity to make my own choices, independent of anyone else’s opinions.

I love the Tiny homes that are springing up all over the US and around the world.  Looking at all the Pinterest and Facebook pictures really grabbed my attention.  I could easily see myself living in a small space, and those houses were so darn cute!!

The pro side of tiny homes was:

  • Living minimally, even off the grid completely
  • No rent or mortgage
  • Could be set up on someone’s “back forty” if permitted
  • Low cost to build
  • Could still work at my regular job and save $$$
  • Permanent resident
  • Available child care for grandkids
  • Not much change to lifestyle
  • Renovate a camper van for when I retired and then travel

The con side of tiny homes was:

  • Living in one place for _#_ years
  • Whose “back forty”could I use? What if they want to move?
  • Continue working the 9-5 job until retirement (5-7 years away)
  • Lots of towns zone against tiny homes
  • Living through more Northeastern winters — ugh!!!

The more I thought about staying in one place for a few more years and working, the less I wanted to invest in that option.

One of my responsibilities at work each day was to run the obituaries to match up anyone in the database who may have died. (Sorry if the term bothers you, but I hate the “passed away” euphemism.) So many people die before or when they reach retirement age.   What if I were to travel first, while I am younger and healthier, and then move into a tiny home when I was tired of traveling, or not so healthy, or whatever…if ever that were the case?

I started looking more into van camping as a full time RV-er.

The pros of RV camper van life were:

  • Freedom to move where I want when I want
  • Taking my own bed and “stuff” everywhere I go
  • Camping, which has always been a favorite activity
  • Visiting family and friends I haven’t been able to spend much time with
  • Seeing all the beauty and enjoying all the subcultures in America
  • Stealth boondocking (staying for free in someone’s driveway or residential area, BLM land, 24-hour store parking lot, rest area, truck stop, etc.)
  • No packing/unpacking when traveling
  • Stay as little or as long as desired in any one place, and ability to change my mind at the drop of a hat
  • Campgrounds can be found much cheaper than hotels or rent, even to stay for several months
  • Work can be done remotely, or work at a campground, etc.
  • Can still live off the grid, with the exception of gas to travel

The cons of the RV camper lifestyle were:

  • No longer an actual resident of my state
  • Finding remote work to support the lifestyle
  • Not seeing the local grandkids as often as I do now, and being available for child care/a break for mom & dad
  • Increased fossil fuel consumption, with gas prices a variable

Since this thought process was several years in the making, I used the time to head in the right direction – simplifying my life, getting rid of “stuff”, paying off debts, living on a cash basis, and taking some online classes to brush up skills to work remotely – writing copy, social media consulting, blog writing and affiliate marketing, virtual assistant, etc.

I also joined many Facebook groups having to do with RV living, and started following some blogs.  These were so helpful and I learned so much! I spent time visiting RV stores and considering what I liked/disliked about each style and size of RV.   I found so many single ladies of a similar (and older!) age were living the solo RV lifestyle and loving it! The camaraderie of the RV-ers, as well as their honesty about the good and bad of their chosen lifestyle, was of great benefit and echoed so many of my own thoughts.

In February when my apartment lease ended, I was still unsure of my final decision.  I had decided to take the first step anyway, and move into my car until I found a good old van to renovate and then live in that during the renovation period.  When I found a suitable van for less than $1000, I was overjoyed. This six-month transition saved me close to $7000, which I was then investing in the van and in a savings account to support whichever decision I made.  It would either be the funding for a tiny home or an emergency fund for traveling in an old van.  Either way, a win-win!

I found I did not miss the TV and cable at all, surprise, surprise! I felt such freedom in living with less possessions. I loved hearing the rain on the van roof and the wind in the trees.  I could look out the windows and see the moon and stars, and felt like I was already camping, even in the suburbs of Albany, New York! (I boondocked at my son’s house, parking the van in the shady trees in the side yard.)

I purchased a membership at Planet Fitness which allows me to use any of their facilities wherever I travel in the US.  I would wake up feeling like I had spent the night in a campground, drive to Planet Fitness to work out and shower and dress for the workday, drive to work…and then each night park back under the shady trees in my little camper van.  This system worked for me during the final six months of work.  No one at work knew I was living out of my car, then the van.  I charged my laptop, Kindle and I-phone at work, and was happily self-sufficient otherwise.

By the middle of summer, I decided that what I really wanted to do was work remotely with flexible hours as I traveled.  I had some minor health issues that forced me to work remotely for the last few months (thanks to a wonderful understanding manager), which was a good experience and confirmed that this was my best plan. I packed all my tiny home plans and supply lists into my storage and there they will stay until I decide I am done traveling.

I will be traveling on a shoestring in my little camper van.  We will see how it goes, but so far I really love this lifestyle!  I know it isn’t for everyone, but it is amazing to me how many people of every age are living the full time RV lifestyle already!  I can’t wait to meet some of them on the road or in a campground.

So this is my journey, and you’re welcome to follow along. I will be honest and as transparent as possible in sharing my story.  I hope you enjoy the blog posts, and maybe some of you will step out of your comfort zone and embrace this lifestyle also!  Or at least live vicariously through this and other folks who share their stories!

Scout — out!

What book are you reading now?

From the bookshelf…

“I looked to the trees.  They always calmed me.  The redwood grove stood like our own appointed guards; their trunks rose straight and solid from the land, their branches so large, we had seen wild turkeys perched in them….Our oaks were more like wise, arthritic grandparents. If you pulled up a chair and sat awhile and listened, you usually heard something useful.  The fruit trees were like our cherished aunties, wearing frilly dresses and an overabundance of perfume in the spring, then by summer, indulging us with their generosity, dropping apples and pears and apricots by the bucketfuls, more than we could ever eat, as if they were saying, Mangia! Mangia!”

The Underside of Joy, by Sere`Prince Halverson, 2012


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Boondocking at “home”

This old van is my new home.

Driver side, 1997 Ford conversion van - ready for renovation
Driver’s side of the “new” old 1997 Ford van
Passenger side, 1997 Ford conversion van. Starting to renovate!
Passenger side, 1997 Ford conversion van. Starting to renovate!

I bought it used for under $1000, and have spent about $500 so far in renovations.  I am currently living in my van while parked at my son’s home.  This last month on my Honda Civic lease means I drive to work and back in the car, but sleep and live in the van.  Within the next month, I will also be driving the van to and from work, so then will officially be living “FULL TIME RV”.

I left my apartment when the lease was up in March.  We had more winter in March and April this year than from November to February (of course…Murphy’s law…if you’re gonna be without heat, the weather will turn frigid!)  My daughter-in-law who loves me insisted I come inside to sleep when it hit freezing temps and below.  But I sleep well in the cold so I only did that for a couple of weeks – would rather sleep in the van!

So, no running water, no heat or air conditioning, no toilet or shower… but I still needed to show up at work every day and I was proving a point to myself that no one would guess I was living out of a van.

I wanted to do a trial run to see how it feels to “full time RV” in a  vehicle so I purposely did not use the family’s bathroom, etc.  I tried to keep as close to the real experience as possible. I wanted to see how it worked to just “go with the flow” and be flexible. One benefit to this 6-month trial run is that by September I will have saved over $8000!  Not too shabby…

Actually, for the first two months I was living out of my Honda Civic.  How did that work?  That first night I locked my car doors and curled up on the back seat, I looked out the rear window and felt GREAT! I have always loved camping and this was pretty close to that feeling.  No campfire, but I cracked open the windows a bit and smelled/felt that nighttime breeze.  I was looking at the moon and stars through the trees, and I was SMILING! When I woke up early in the morning, the air was fresh and cool, and I knew this was what I wanted to do every day, absolutely!

Honda Civic boondocking in front of my son's house in Albany, NY
Honda Civic boondocking in front of my son’s house in Albany, NY

A Honda Civic is not a large car, and those two months before I bought the used van was a great reinforcement to all my down-sizing and packing skills.  The back seat did not allow for a complete stretch-out on the bench sleep and at first I tossed and turned every few hours to get comfortable. Fortunately I am only 5’4″ tall, and adjusted okay.  Not great sleeping curled up, but survivable.  Here are some tips and tricks:

I had done a great job of downsizing and put warm weather clothes and kitchen supplies in my daughter’s storage unit until I would be ready to move into a van. (When I did move into the full size van, I felt like it was sooooo spacious!!!  LOL)

Clothing was selected for its non-iron practicality, and packed lightly into those 12″ cloth storage cubes ($6.00 each) – one for underwear, one for socks, one for pants, etc.  These 12″ cubes were lined up in my car trunk for easy access.  In the corners of the trunk were a few pairs of shoes, sneakers, flip flops.

Living out of a Honda Civic - cloth cubes of clothes in the trunk. Easy access. Laundry basket in the back.
Living out of a Honda Civic – cloth cubes of clothes in the trunk. Easy access. Laundry basket in the back.

Personal items were stored in my gym bag, which went on the back seat floor.  I purchased a black card membership at Planet Fitness for $20/month, which allowed me to not only work-out but SHOWER every day.

Back seat has black bedroll on the seat and gym bag on the floorboard. Front seats are moved as far front as possible and tilted into dashboard for maximum space in the back.
Back seat has black bedroll on the seat and gym bag on the floorboard. Front seats are moved as far front as possible and tilted into dashboard for maximum space in the back.

My car interior is black, and I folded my black comforter with my sheets inside, and they blended into the back seat.  Ditto for a black pillowcase on my favorite pillow.  It would require quite a close look to see that there was a “bed” in the back seat while parked at work.

Front seat passenger side held my current library books, a bag of snacks, bottle of water, and my tote-sized purse.  Most of my life I have carried a small purse but for this transition, I used a large-sized purse that could carry my wallet, notebook, smartphone, Kindle, tissues, eye glass wipes, personal feminine hygiene wipes, clear nail polish and file, etc.  Since this purse always went into work with me, there wasn’t much left in the parked car to give away my “homeless” status.

Front passenger seat has tote purse, snack bag, library books and napping pillow. All set!
Front passenger seat has tote purse, snack bag, library books and napping pillow. All set!

Sleeping in a smallish car was not too bad – I knew it wouldn’t be long as I was already searching for a used van to renovate.  I found that by pushing the front seats up as far as possible and tilting them forward into the dashboard, the back seat felt more spacious when sleeping. I could stretch my legs out occasionally if I put my feet up or in the middle console area.  I slept quite well, using my smartphone alarm in case I didn’t wake up naturally at the usual time.

Waking up by 5 a.m., I would drive to Planet Fitness or a local convenience shop to empty my bladder.  I do have a “stealth” system if I couldn’t make it (yeah, five pregnancies will do that to your ability to hold urine!)  A simple $2 funnel from the autoparts store works fantastic, as most backpacking girls know.  Not too interested in “dropping trou” in my son’s front yard, so I pull up next to some trees around the corner and stand there like a man — haha!  We call it the She-nis”…

Small automotive funnel – use your imagination!

Back to the daily experience…work-out at Planet Fitness, then shower and change into my work clothes.  Small laundry basket in the trunk to hold dirty laundry (bag of detergent pods and dryer sheets at the bottom of the laundry basket – ready to go.) When I left the apartment, I did pack all clothes that did not need ironing – jersey / knit tops, casual slacks that could pass for “business casual”.  I put together eight outfits that I could switch and mix.

I usually bought a breakfast roll or have a granola /cereal bar on my way to work.  Lunch was my usual frozen Lean Cuisine meals I keep in the office freezer – a week’s worth at a time.  Supper was either with family / friends, or just a prepackaged salad from Walmart or a grocery store, with an occasional fast food or diner meal.  I knew this was a limited time of no cooler/camp-stove so was prepared to spend a bit more for eating convenience.  Still managed to lose 4 pounds and save $2000 during that two months – yay!

Charged my smartphone, Kindle and laptop in my office at work every day.  Weekends I would either stop at the library to recharge or family / friend home.  I had purchased a Verizon Jet-pack so that I was self-sufficient with my own wi-fi.  For $10 a month, this keeps me free from public wi-fi hackers.  YAY for Verizon!

Before heading back to boondock for the night, I would stop again to empty the bladder and wash up.  For those who know upstate New York, I have always loved Stewart’s convenience shops – now they are my best friends since I stop at one or more every day.  Fortunately, there are five or more within a two mile distance of home!  Clean individual bathrooms with hot water and toilet paper/paper towels – always appreciated!  YAY for Stewart’s Shops!

It was a red letter day when I found and bought the used Ford conversion van and brought it to my son’s driveway.  He had already agreed to let me park it behind his (Railroad) work truck, back between the fence and the side of the house.  I moved my “stuff” into the van, and my car again became just a car to drive around town.

Now I am busy renovating the van, but that’s for another post.

Moral of the story, you can survive with very little if you know it’s for a limited time.  I was able to do all this, in part, because I am single.  My adult kids are all grown and have their own homes and families. I have no life partner at this point, which meant my decisions and sacrifices were my own choice.  Ask for help, be willing to make concessions, and be flexible.

If you want it bad enough, you will find a way!

Scout — out!

What book are you reading now?

From the bookshelf…

“Suffering in and of itself is meaningless; we give our suffering meaning by the way in which we respond to it…Forces beyond your control can take away everything you possess except one thing, your freedom to choose how you will respond to the situation.”

Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl, 1962


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